talking about ethics in terms of Stoicism is tricky business, because most of the philosophy is based on enduring hardships; a circumstance thats tough to judge from a moral standpoint. Furthermore, stoicism is based off of ancient Greek traditions and has trouble integrating into contemporary society.
"Most of the Stoicism is based on enduring hardships" is the most common misperception about Stoicism. Please read my inital post on Stoicisim misperceptions and give it a chance, it may surprise you :) @theaxclinic