We convince ourselves that our lives will be better after we are married. After we have children. We are frustrated that the children are not big enough, and that we will be happier when they grow up.
Then we are frustrated because they are mature and difficult for you. We are sure that we will be happier after they pass this phase. We tell ourselves that our lives will be better and perfect when our spouse succeeds more.
When we have a better car or a bigger house, we can go to the resort when we're retired. The truth is that there is no better time to be happy "from now on". If not now, when?
Life is always full of challenges and obstacles. It is better to accept this and decide to be happy anyway. Someone once said: "For a long time I thought that" real life "should have started soon. But there was always one obstacle, a problem that I must deal with, a fax unsolved, a debt that should be paid. Only then should life have started. Until I realized that these obstacles were my life. This perspective helped me to understand that there is no way to happiness: happiness is the way!
It would be good if you saved every good moment you have alone or with someone special enough worth spending your time with with that you will remember... Time is not waiting for anyone. Therefore, stop waiting until the end of school, until you lose weight, until you get married, until your children leave the house. Until you divorce, by Friday night or until Sunday, until the summer, until the fall, until winter or spring, or until you die to decide that there is no better time to be happy. Happiness is an unfateful way.
Work like you don't need money
love it's like you've never been hurt.
Dance as if no one sees you
and happiness is the journey itself and not the destination!
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