I agree and disagree at the same time . For the most part it is true that we expect something in return . Or that our contribution is not wasted . There have been many times where I have with full awareness new this act was going to hurt in one way or another . The only way it could possible be in my best interest would be not to do it .
I do not loan money . Will not . I will give it to you and we will never speak of it again . Never , as if it never happened . Most of the things I or we do are anonymous . We don't do alot but we do , do things .
It's a slippery slope . That's why I prefer to be anonymous . There will always be People in need and they are in no other position then to be self serving or manipulative . The problem is that when the wants of people come into play instead of needs .
The path to suffering.