RE: Searching For Ruth!

[arthur.grafo]

Hmmm, it's okay, no need to reply. I just saw that you have muted me, so I unfollowed - since you want to be left alone.

Have a good life, bi.

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[ruth-girl]

Good morning! I haven't muted you, I just checked (because it has happened to me to mute or unfollow by accident while on my phone). Your profile appears on my phone on like that

But it's ok

Edit: I use this tool

http://steemit.serviceuptime.net/mute.php

[arthur.grafo]

Just checked your tool and it stunned me, I seem to be muted by people I do not know!

Just so that you understand why I thought I was muted:

Thanks.

[ruth-girl]

I really don't know what might have happened. I mean, I have unfollowed people by accident while waiting for the their blog to load on my phone (touch screens can make a mess so often!)

[arthur.grafo]

It was not your fault and I cannot have you blaming yourself, so - I'm embarrassed to tell you why it was my fault, but here goes:

I was on your blog page and I saw you are following very few, so I wondered whether my name will be in the list. As in the image I posted, what I saw was my name, but with a blank beside it - so I thought, if she had unfollowed, it would say, "FOLLOW" but for there to be a blank, she must have muted.

What is the truth? It was blank next to my name because I was looking at it, for you the words Follow/Unfollow would appear. I presume the coders decided that a visitor should not be allowed to alter his own status from any blog page but their own, so I was blanked. If you look at my list, I guess you'll see your name, but without any indication of the status next to it. Just as you do not have a button for Follow in your own heading - I would not mind following myself, but they did not think it would be a good idea.

We learn from our mistakes, they say, but it is embarrassing.

My dear, my apologies (συγνώμη) for worrying you for nothing - and seeing I am on such a short list has done much to boost my self-confidence.