Probably because big cities generally have much better job opportunities. Also, people in big cities tend to be friendlier, more open-minded and tolerant. You might think that, with all the hustle and bustle, people in cities like London, UK, would be busy, self-important, would not suffer anyone getting in their way. On the contrary, living a large metropolis trains you to become smooth and flexible. If you're not, you'll be creating disturbance and delay all the time. Even though the crowds will adapt to minimize any disturbance you make, you'll feel the pressure as if you were trying to resist a current. A large metropolis never sleeps and the flow of people and things is constant and can be overwhelming before you get used to it. There are no gossip mirrors in London. There are simply too many things around you for you to want to fixate on the details of anybody else's life.
You have a good point there, @markkujantunen. However, one thing I don't agree about is the friendliness of people. At least in my country, people that live in smaller cities and villages tend to be friendlier :)
Maybe friendly is not exactly the right word here. I'm talking about smoothness, good manners and things like that.
There is a difference between Lahti (population 118,000) and Tampere (population 225,000). People in Tampere tend to have slightly better manners, on average. But the biggest difference is the difference in the standard deviations in how well people behave measured by, for instance, the frequency at which someone will say something rude to you. To give you an idea of what I'm talking about in quantitative terms, my impression is that if a certain level of rudeness is achieved, say, by one percent of the population in Tampere, that same level of rudeness would be found in three percent of the population in Lahti. At the other end of the spectrum, if a certain level niceness is achieved by one percent of the population of Tampere, that same level is achieved by two percent of the population of Lahti. This implies that how well-behaved the people you meet in Lahti are will depend more on the individuals and their upbringing than in Tampere where there seems to be more of a general tendency to maintain a polite distance to a greater degree.
I have visited London, UK, eight times. During all of my visits, people were using polite words and being flexible and adaptive all the time, and I started to follow their example. I also noticed that in Stockholm, Sweden, the general atmosphere was very relaxed and friendly, moreso than in Helsinki.
Probably because big cities generally have much better job opportunities. Also, people in big cities tend to be friendlier, more open-minded and tolerant. You might think that, with all the hustle and bustle, people in cities like London, UK, would be busy, self-important, would not suffer anyone getting in their way. On the contrary, living a large metropolis trains you to become smooth and flexible. If you're not, you'll be creating disturbance and delay all the time. Even though the crowds will adapt to minimize any disturbance you make, you'll feel the pressure as if you were trying to resist a current. A large metropolis never sleeps and the flow of people and things is constant and can be overwhelming before you get used to it. There are no gossip mirrors in London. There are simply too many things around you for you to want to fixate on the details of anybody else's life.
You have a good point there, @markkujantunen. However, one thing I don't agree about is the friendliness of people. At least in my country, people that live in smaller cities and villages tend to be friendlier :)
Maybe friendly is not exactly the right word here. I'm talking about smoothness, good manners and things like that.
There is a difference between Lahti (population 118,000) and Tampere (population 225,000). People in Tampere tend to have slightly better manners, on average. But the biggest difference is the difference in the standard deviations in how well people behave measured by, for instance, the frequency at which someone will say something rude to you. To give you an idea of what I'm talking about in quantitative terms, my impression is that if a certain level of rudeness is achieved, say, by one percent of the population in Tampere, that same level of rudeness would be found in three percent of the population in Lahti. At the other end of the spectrum, if a certain level niceness is achieved by one percent of the population of Tampere, that same level is achieved by two percent of the population of Lahti. This implies that how well-behaved the people you meet in Lahti are will depend more on the individuals and their upbringing than in Tampere where there seems to be more of a general tendency to maintain a polite distance to a greater degree.
I have visited London, UK, eight times. During all of my visits, people were using polite words and being flexible and adaptive all the time, and I started to follow their example. I also noticed that in Stockholm, Sweden, the general atmosphere was very relaxed and friendly, moreso than in Helsinki.
You're kidding, right? 🤣 ...and London doesn't need anymore spying devices, they are already the surveillance capital of the world!
London does have a lot of security cameras. Precious few have been installed for the same purpose as the mirrors @eveuncovered saw in Kristinestad.
sure
Haha, move out of there! But I understand, I live in a small city and the view from my window is a ugly yellow wall...