Don’t try this when you feel like shit. It won’t work. You gotta be in a positively charged or neutral mood. Think back to when you were a kid.
You played!
You pretended you were a fish. You pushed a ball around in a circle with your finger for no reason. You sang nonsense to yourself. You made funny faces without worrying about being called strange.
Why the fuck did you stop!?
That’s the real you, the you that can manifest out of thin air. You were playful. You were curious. You made fun where there was none.
Get back to that shit right now. No excuses. I said it doesn’t work if you are in a bad mood but that’s not true, it just takes a few tries.
If you are upset, squish a banana in your hands and lick the banana off your fingers, stomp your feet and shout. Stop being a fucking adult. Nobody likes fucking adults. They lied to you. Whoever told you you have to grow up lied to you.
Just be whatever you feel like being right now. People won’t even dislike you for it as long as you can feel them out and find a middle ground. They will like you more for it if you can do this.
That’s the secret. That’s it. that is all you need.
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I am not sure why or when it happened, but I think there are cultural pressures that encourage us to stop this sort of thing and it’s a tragedy really.
We're often encouraged to be proper. To be normal. I dated a gal for a few years and one of things she constantly remarked about me was that I was an odd duck.
Glad you broke up! X-D
Yes and it makes life boring.
Hi @bitshares101
I've noticed that we're both playing holybread and it seem that you were on my way :) (I play as @project.hope)
Hope you're enjoying playing holybread. I found this game quite entertaining. Perhaps it will get boring soon, but right now it's still loads of fun :)
What's your impression so far?
Yours,
Piotr
I like it. I'm not much of a game person so I don't know how it rates with others but I think there are a multitude of strategies one can use so it keeps the mind active while throwing in some competitive spirit
Hi again @bitshares101
Can I ask you for little favour? I joined contest called "Community of the week" with project I manage and I would be grateful if you could RESTEEM it and help me get some exposure and drop some encouraging comment :)
Link to my post: on steemit or on steempeak
Thanks :)
Yours, Piotr
I could blame it on the people in charge but in the end I think it's because most of us are still controlled by fear. Fear that something bad will happen at any moment. Fear makes us boring.
We can still make lots of money here and yes, it’s only fear holding a lot of people back. I have all sorts of social anxieties that spring forwards when I want to create an article or record a video and in the end nothing gets done. Something I am working on this year.
Feel free to drop a link when you go out of your comfort zone, that is so much of what I’m doing here, just constantly going out of my comfort zone and working on developing new parts of my personality :-)
You stopped because kids do that and adults don't, the adults made sure that you knew you were a monumentally stupid immature arsehole that absolutely needed to grow the hell up, no excuses, if you insisted on continuing doing stupid childish things as an adult.
Amusingly it was apparently one of the reasons why Changeling was invented (one of the World of Darkness species), I remember reading in the intro something along the lines of the creators tried to play together with action figures like they used to do as kids but ended up just feeling stupid (probably because they'd forgotten how to play) so they put together Changeling to play with virtual action figures I guess because you can get to ridiculous levels of fun and silly with Changeling in a way that is much harder to achieve with the other species XD
Also, playing Changeling with kids is the best. I once ran a game for my kids and some of their friends when they were aged 6-11 and one outlier teenager that I tried to do other stuff with as well and the shenanigans they got up to were pretty epic XD
I have no idea what any of this is, a quick google search...sounds fun and like something that will take me away from all I am focused on. I wish I could use my sleeping hours for work and play!!!
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