Envy is one of the hardest feelings to admit. Maybe I'm just admitting in this post myself because I'm not showing my face...
Envy sometimes bothers me a little. I look at what people have and I think I wanted the same, and sometimes I start looking for why those people don't deserve to have what they have and why I deserve it.
It's a feeling that hurts me inside. But, that's what envy does, it makes us die a little inside ourselves. But how to stop desiring what the other has or how to stop judging whether the other deserves to have or not?
I'm still discovering, but I try to nurture a feeling of happiness for the other. It's a little difficult at first, because that strong feeling you have that the person doesn't deserve it, it's very dense. But I tend to assign a different meaning, I try to think that there is a reason why that person deserve those things for more than in my judgment he doesn't deserve it. So I question my judgments and ask myself why am I right.
Sorry for showing this envious side, but I'm showing you to also look for the envious side of you, look at it closely and decide to work on it. Face your ugly side, get to know yourself, because that's the only way you can truly change, that's the only way you can transcend.
Enviousness is that part of us that if care is not taking we will find it had to admit, yes wanting to want what others has is bad but we can also try use it in the right ways.
Like instead of feeling bad seeing what other has, we can actually see it as a motivation to works towards that which we admire in others to achieve that which we want without feeling jealous or envious of others
Is not good to be envious of others because of what they have, instead we should always focus that energy in working towards the things we want.
Envy It's just so had to let go and it gets worse when you ain't achieving and your mates are, probably your friends...
We should know that we can't be like other and others can't be like us, everyone has his/her own unique nature and its left for us to look for it and show it...
Just how you are trying to be like others because you think you ain't okay the way you are, some people are dying to be like you...
The best way to live this life is to always appreciate yourself, celebrate your little achievements and work hard for more..
Lets be contented with what we have and hope for the best...
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