Belonging and fitting in is way over-rated. In my experience, fitting in means swimming in a certain negativity pattern. I listen to people talk to each other and they are generally either complaining about a life situation or another person and this is what they believe to be intimacy. Just not interested in the that anymore. Energetically, it feels sour and false. I like humor, creating and karate and find people to relate with in those circumstances. But finding a co-dependency fit is not to my taste and this seems demanded in most intimate relationships. Or perhaps I am in transition ... who knows but it is what it is. I have embraced not fitting in ... perhaps I am just in the wrong puzzle box. Your work as always is first class:)
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I agree, I think that whenever we "try" to fit in we are always sacrificing part of ourselves somehow to fit that mould. Because surely the picture we are naturally a part of "spiritually" wouldn't require such hefty sacrifice. Anytime I've found where I was best suited it tended to just work out, without any pushing or shoving and definitely no convincing; the pieces just fell into place. People used to tell me years ago that when you meet people who get you, and who you get, it's actually very easy to flow with that, but it wasn't until I felt it first hand that I understood. From experience I now know that if it's hardship and sacrifice then it's likely we are trying to flow with the wrong energy current.
Sing it, brother:) ... LOL ... you will have to excuse me, I am feeling pretty bossy this morning and ordering people about ... I think that movie rubbed off on me. I may be too impressionable. LOL. Have a great tale end to your day, Westley:)
No problem, you too Pryde :-)