If it's a post about Elon and his family, I'll always recommend you bring up his first-born transgender daughter Vivian. That situation is perhaps one of the most corrupt I've ever seen in my life. That he would abandon his own child is the ultimate abdication of responsibility and duty.
I can't respect a man that would forsake his own children. I may sound like an old man at this point, or maybe one that should have been born in a different timeline, but I measure "manliness" in a whole different way.
Anything else is not nearly as important as these three.
I should say the only reason why I use the word "manliness" is to be current with today's ridiculous manosphere language. But in reality is just how one should measure the quality of a human being. It applies to everyone.