Very well said @cryto-old-guy38! I had the most loving grandparents around, but living in Ontario, just south of Detroit, the N word was thrown around quite a bit, because Aunt Mary, who lived in Detroit, was mugged by a black guy once. And so it was.
"Was" being the operative word.
I found your post because @rembertomarsada featured you in her Pay it Forward Curation Contest entry. Feel free to join us with an entry of your own next week :)