Hi @danielwong, your post triggered one of my experience, where I see with my own eyes, a coach is hypnotizing a victim of abusive relationship. Due to privacy, I will not reveal names and details.
The girl was in an abusive relationship for 3 years. Her so-called "boyfriend" humiliated her to the point that she has lost all self-love and made her dependent on only him. He said "You're so ugly, no one will love you except me!" in a very angry, arrogant tone.
She manage to get out of the relationship eventually. However, in her case, how could have reconciliation happen?
Even after the hypnotherapy, the girl hated the guy so much to the point of wanting to kill him. Is forgiveness possible at this stage?
Since forgiveness is a choice, yes its possible, if the person so chooses to; alternatively if the person chooses to withhold forgiveness that's said person's choice.
However, choosing to forgive takes alot of energy and not everyone has that right off the bat.
Forgiveness of course possible. With her own effort? Probably not.
Forgiveness is an outward expression of an inward transformation. If she doesn’t get heal from within, she’ll never be able to forgive that person, and if so she’ll then somehow hurt someone in the future as well. Hurt people hurt people.
Thus why I stressed the point of how important forgiveness is. It is ultimately for your wellbeing.
Yes, it's an inward transformation and she'll definitely need help. Luckily her family condition is improving and I hope her family able to support her to forgive that guy. Thank you @danielwong for the wise guide.
Okay, so it depends on her choice and takes energy. I also think it takes time. She's just got off the relationship, so I think the memory is still fresh within her. Thank you @rayraymy for the good comment :)