If one wants to achieve true meaning in the long run. To get what you want, you must learn to reject some immediate benefits. For example, if you want to be with someone you like, you have to reject what seems to be a passable situation. If you want to realize your dream, you have to give up some shortcuts. The attractive things that look good may not bring you true happiness The only reason they're in your life is to keep you, to stay where you are. Later I learned that many times, the most important three words for people are not "go forward" but "calm down" .