I hope this doesn't have anything to do with racism. N380,000 is approximately £900+ pounds. People are earning less than that in Britain for a whole month. But irrespective of the loss accumulated, they still said no which you never even applied for a "stay visa" but rather just a day or two. In their country, someone would hang himself for something less.
Well like John Legend said "even when I loose I'm winning", I hope you win on this one, stay strong.
You can imagine the mind of a hateful person and how they use it to spoil it for others. I am stronger than they want me to be and in loosing, I truly win.
Thanks bro and stay awesome