Hello dear @karencarrens :)
Yes, thank you for making this message so straight forward. This is precisely one of the goals of this post. Like I said, I am not asking everyone to start 'loving' ADMs, all I would like people to be able to do is in your words:
we need to be careful about judging the steps others take with their own well-being because we don't know all the facts.
Much love to you always!
Have a great week 😍