Hello my dear @zephalexia :)
The comment you left me here today does not surprise me! I remember you once said you feel quite affected by what you watch sad news on tv etc... it is, without a doubt, important to find a balance when it comes to empathy. I believe we have to look after ourselves first. After all, how can we even help others? Don't you agree?
The example you shared here about supporting a friend who is hurting after a break up, but refusing to take part in vindictive actions illustrates an important sense of morality. Further, it is also a lesson that we shouldn't be selective towards who we are emphatic towards :)
Thank you for your kind, loving words.
You take good care of yourself! ❤️ :)