- A strong short (but longer than usual) eye contact when transferring your message: Good tip is to look at the part of the nose between the eyes.
- Take a natural pose or stand: Do not cross your arms or legs. If your hands, arms and feet are open and showing, ´´the person will trust you more´´.
- The voice is very powerful: The tone of your voice can influence how people look at you. Ever wondered why a person with a soft and friendly tone is more likely to be trusted? A deep, resonant voice with a strong undertone is the voice of a leader, and crowds of people are attracted to undertones. Using your voice with undertones can be learned as a skill and can be adjusted to your personal goals.
- Being happy and learning to smile: Ever noticed how a person can be more likeable and trusted after he/she laughed with you? The voice has a nice optimistic vibe, and the whole face smiles! Try to make people laugh first and afterwards, try to ask the thing what you wanted.
- Touch the elbow slightly: Touching the elbow slightly can be very efficient, but don't touch it too long! Touch it briefly during the conversation
Waoo Annaguzc,this such a smart piece of rules! Love it :)
Thank you very much for your comment)
the strange thing of the rule is, why stand can be used as a measuring tool for someone that how? 😎😎😎
This teaches us to show imagination :)
Laughing truly is a powerful relating skill. I lead improv classes and most of the time I feel like it's the art of laughter.
I also like physical touch. For me, that's one of my love languages (whether its intimate or for friendship) and I tend to open up a lot more when people are more physical with me - or when I feel comfortable being more physical with them.
Great post here @annaguzc. I'd love to hear your thoughts about my recent post: These Three Words Will Instantly Change How You Perceive Your Life