We Don't Actually Want Solutions

in #psychology5 years ago

I was recently struck by how few people are interested in discussing solutions. Our tendency is to want to complain, blame, and focus on everything that's wrong (and why it will apparently never change). Well you know what? All that does is create more of the same hateful, spiteful, cruel crap.






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I agree with you South Africans are missing the point and they're alienating certain sections of the population as if they would not act the same way given the circumstances. I always say its one thing to make good choices in life, but some of us have better options to choose from when making your good choices. The lower you are the lower your margin for error in making choices too.

It's far more multifaceted than simply uneducated or lazy which is the normal dismissive approach