Yes, the biggest philosophical problem in human beings interaction is the connection between experience and behavior.
Our experience is behind a veil to others and even to ourselves.
The visible part is the mutual behavior(observable) and in the relation between two people, in a transactional spiral where both persons are just one that I call "the interrelation" and changes each other's experience.
So don't try to change anybody's experience, except directly intervening in the other's behavior by changing the interrelation that will have implications for other person's experience of myself.
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