If that feeling keeps eating away at you, I have a suggestion for putting your mind at ease. Ask your female friends how their husbands or boyfriends treat them. I bet you'll find that your husband is doing you many small favors and making many small gestures that those other marriages and relationships lack. And you can do favors and make gestures that show affection for him too! In fact, the ukelele that you posted about is a fine example, yes? Let me know if I am right or wrong, okay, Catherine?
All the best.
I think you are so very right! Thank you for writing these words, they really mean a lot to me!