Yeah man, sometimes circumstances make us have to stop. Thanks for sharing @elizacheng, makes me feel not alone :) I'm in the process of trying to wean Levi too. We have been not drinking for 3.5 days so far. Can see he's sad and I too am but we will go through this transition together!
My grandma is rested in peace, I believe. It was too suffering for already before this. So it should be a relief from all her sufferings as she couldn't eat, drink or sleep since last week.