Psychologists have long found a simple formula that can facilitate the process of rapprochement between people and also help to achieve harmony with oneself and the world. It turned out that it's very simple, and you can even say trite. All you need is just to be yourself. Always.
All people tend to change their behavioral style depending on which company they are. It's perfectly natural. But this is good only if by changing your behaviour you start to "play". So, for example, going with friends in a cafe, you have fun laughing and talking nonstop about everything. But, coming to work, you become more serious cast of thought "not the case" and talk only when necessary. This pattern of behavior is perfectly normal, because any reasonable person understands that the situation in the particular case provokes a specific behavior.
But especially if you start to behave too humbly or too casually, those around you feel uncomfortable near you, pointed out your dishonesty and trying to reduce their communication with you to a minimum.
How to overcome this barrier that is hindering your effective communication with others? You need to be yourself. Do not wear "masks" and not play "roles." Let your emotions are those that they are actually let around see what feelings you really feel, not the ones that you want to show.
By the way, is "now" behavior will be very useful for those women who are in search of a new partner. You should not complicate things and try to seem better than you really are. Understand that after some time, you still bother to wear the selected "mask" and you "remove". Then, the man you chose, could be in for some serious disappointment well, or at least great surprise.
If your partner realize that you are sincere and not hiding anything from him, behave the way you really want, then most likely he will also want to open up in front of you, show your true self. Don't be afraid that if you will open that someone may not like. If it's meant to happen, it will in any case happen, not now, but later. That's only if it happens later, it will be even worse. First, all the while hiding their true face you will feel the fear of "exposure", and secondly, during the dialogue you will surely get attached to the person and you would hate to lose it.
To be yourself means that you live in harmony with your body and soul, that you accept and love yourself for who you are, because you have nothing to hide from others. You absolutely believe in yourself and your abilities and know that no matter how turned around your life, everything happens for the best. Remember that a person who likes himself and accepts himself as he is, always appreciates and accepts others for who they are. And this is the attitude of the people is sure to be noticed and appreciated.
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You are the best yourself that is in this world. Meanwhile: always good the learn things and skills and keep in mind that nothing, at least for me, is easier than being stupid.
To be yourself you have to be original, not like others. Feel free to laugh, give your opinion, chose your friends. You must have one balance with body and soul..
If you want to read something similar i ve post something very apart... please check:
https://steemit.com/writing/@azen/remember-the-childhood
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