Man is intermittently paradoxical and this is because of the sophistication of the enigma behind man's nature, I won't say fear is a bad thing, sometimes my fear has kept me alive as a result of the fact that I followed my instincts on what I fear.
However fear has been known to be damning as well, the world may have been different if fear doesn't exist to man.
However this is definitely the opposite. Like Nathan here who was rejected after all, love sometimes can be a very strange kettle of fish.
I'm definitely in the same shoes as Nathan but the truth is even when I know I should conquer my fear and ask a woman I love out my mind always fading, "what if I'm not in her league"? What if I'm not good-looking enough? What if I'm not rich enough? "if she rejects me, will I still have the friendship"?
My point is love is a complicating stuff, feeling it makes one abnormal that's why I still have fears when I know I shouldn't.
In a nutshell this is a beautiful read and above all I've learnt that fear will not prevent the inevitable.
I'm so glad to read through from you today, I hope you're fine?
Hello my Dear @josediccus :)
Perhaps different to the point we, humans, wouldn't even be around! 😐
In general, fear does get entangled with other emotions, in yours and Natan's case (almost typed his real name here 😅) that other feeling is 'love'. Without a doubt it makes it all the more complicated!
All the questions you raised here are very similar to those that crossed Natan's mind. And, unfortunately, Emma is not as close to him nowadays as he used to be. But, this is one of the things he also prepared for when he decided to talk to her that evening.
You once told me that you missed out on having a romantic relationship with a nice girl because you hesitated to make the first move. Are you willing to experience that again? Have you weighed things out properly? :)
I do hope you think this one through as carefully and bravely as you can my dear.
I wish you all the best always and forever :*
I won't be willing to miss out on a good relationship with a girl again, well I guess it's true it's quite better to take one's chances just like Nathan did and well it didn't quite turn out very well for him with her. But I guess it's still better irrespective of the outcome.
Thank you so much @abigail-dantes I'm sorry I replied late really it's always amazing to read your content, I guess I have a decision to make 😀😀
Good luck! 😉