Agree with you that...
if they can provide me with some sort of framing/logic as to why they are performing a certain act, I could at least understand better how it did make sense to them...even if I don't agree.
And for sure you are not excusing anything, but understanding that we are all different and have also different points of views about life and its concepts.
Exactly :) That little understanding goes a long way for me...gets beyond the pure good/ bad to human being human.