It's better to be outcast, branded falsities by ignorant people and lose leadership, than do unjustified immoral harm to others according to social norms, codes, "laws", etc.
Check out "9th Grade Girls with Better Critical Thinking Skills than Lawyers". He mentions the obvious thing we learn by 5 years old, don't harm others hehe. Man's court "law" isn't moral law.
thanks I'll view this later. Got to go see Pops. Father's day thing.