Perhaps school is simply a horrific ordeal for some kids, because they hate being told what to learn, when and how. I've never seen a kid exploring a creek with some mates exhibiting ADHD.
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Perhaps school is simply a horrific ordeal for some kids, because they hate being told what to learn, when and how. I've never seen a kid exploring a creek with some mates exhibiting ADHD.
Brilliantly put @mattclarke.
It reminds me a bit of the depression diagnosis. That grew with the creation of the Prozac type drugs (can't remember their name) and then next thing you know there's a massive increase in anxiety and now depression and anxiety seems to be the new norm.
I have pretty much always been somewhat depressed... pretty much since my teens. And I have never been "treated" for it. One of the fewthings my parents got right — perhaps because they were "older" — was an acceptance of the fact that I simply has a "maudlin temperament," and they were OK with that, as long as I wasn't harming myself or others...
Me too @denmarkguy. I've always considered my self to be a bit of an eeyore although I do have my pooh moments. 😁
I did take Prozac some years back which did seem to help. But the next time I tried it it didn't and I'd seen too many friends just getting higher and higher dose so I didn't take it again.
What really "worked" for me was when I gave up fighting and trying to understand it and faced asked myself the question 'what if you are always going to in and out of depression for the rest of your life, no matter what you do?'
'how would you live your life knowing that?'
Since then I have never had a full blown depression. I still get downs, sometimes for weeks but never to the point of not being able to get out of bed or feeling it's all pointless.
I just accept that I'm feeling crap for no particular rhyme or reason (except my thinking) and that it will pass it I let it be.
Don't get me started on the school system!
So many of our problems arise because we insist on developing "standardized" systems for human beings... who are anything BUT standardized. And yes, I can appreciate that there are certain basic things we'd all benefit from learning, but it's the assumption that everyone has the same learning style that troubles me.
Me too. I was sooooo happy once my kids were out of it.