Hi @explorernations, I'm neither philosopher nor love guru either, haha. Just a curious observer.
Yes, among all problems that exist in the world - health issues, money problems, business mistakes - I have to say relationships are one of the toughest. You see, the others have factors that are within your control. In a relationship, however, it involves another party, and that certainly is out of our hands. Especially if it's personally out of our hands!
Never be greedy or selfish because only you think that it is right.
Like the way you phrase his. That's already a road down the philosophers. :)