You are viewing a single comment's thread from:RE: Flashing your nuts and emotional controlView the full contextmichealb (67)in #psychology • 6 years ago i used to here people say you hurt my feelings. no i didn't. You allowed your feeling to get hurt;)
yep, deflecting blame from oneself is a strategy that can work... until it doesn't. I am not sure how many people can live an emotionally uncontrolled life where they feel victimised before they look in the mirror.