You know - I have at times wondered how some pair-ups (where one partner or another is clearly toxic) came about - but have never been able to put my finger on it. That and I currently don't really feel well-placed to talk about it either.
As such I found the contents of this article refreshing to read @jannell - having provided quite a bit of food for thought. Thanks. :c)
Thanks for your comment! I did struggle with whether to even write a post about the conversation (and my take-away from it) - I certainly don't have any authority when it comes to psychology of relationships. BUT, I thought it was an interesting concept and wanted to share. Glad you liked it.
You are welcome @jannell. :c)
It is certainly important to tread lightly in one's words in some matters - but this is different from not treading at all - and so I am glad that you chose to touch upon this topic.
Fortunately one does not need to be an authority to weigh in upon such topics - this we ought also to be thankful for as the World would be a far poorer place if only the certified and empowered made themselves heard. :c)
So true! Thank you for taking that perspective.