The expectation of intelligent gossip is a powerful motive for serious self criticism, more powerful than new year resolutions to improve ones decision making at home and at work.
By - Danial Kahneman
But main problem is we have so many friends whose brains are filled with biases and heuristics so that we are not able to communicate intelligent gossip.People listen less and give judgments about everything and that's where chance of intelligent gossip ends up.
What does intelligent gossip mean? Is it gossip intelligently in order to manipulate something?
Nope. This means understanding every persons point of view and don't become judgmental in earlier part of conversation.
Aware of biases and heuristics and question your intuition and gut feeling.