hi miss abigail , good evening from here, how are you today? i really got a lot of point in your new post
i think i can relate to what you mentioned that couple with small kids experience decline in relationship, i think that might be true for me. i got two little ones now our eldest is 10 already. and i am not sure why i think it does affect our relationship, maybe because we are more focus on the kids? but still we're in good terms i can say , but not really like what we are before.
And yes , i did remember your post about resilience before , like it's how we can adjust or accept or adapt difficulties in life?if i remembered it correctly hehe. I also want to say that i think my partner now maybe still have grudges from his past , and haven't totally done forgiveness , i believe forgiveness for himself , that's why we are so opposite , i actually tend to forgive very easy , and i would agree on your statement to, as myself as a proof, being forgiving makes me happier and healthier too, i just smile on problems and pray as well. and i am more like outspoken and he's not , i am not really sure if he prays too , hehe, me, i am always grateful to even small things happening to me everyday .And i also believe that happiness is innate, sometimes some people just need somebody to find it in him . I am amaze with how George accepeted what happened to him , move on in his life for the good of his family too, and how he is satisfied with what he has right now , and i can say that maybe George is happier than those who don't have wheelchair but still dont know how to accept , to be grateful to have true happiness .
I always live to read your post miss @abigail-dantes, and i wanna take this opportunity to thank you for always appreciating my post and the mini's , we love you and will always be thankful for that , it's big thing for homesteader mom like me , God bless you more eveeyday 😘❤️❤️❤️
PS : oh! almost forgot miss abi , my sister already arrived in the platform , the one i am telling you with thesame bame as yours, her account is @avhyaceulip
Stay awesome miss @abigail-dantes , me and the @mini-zephalexia and my sister @avhyaceulip loveyou and will support you always 👍👏❤️❤️❤️
Hello Dear @zephalexia,
Good evening from here too :) I have had a busy, but good day. Thank you so much for asking you are very thoughtful!
You are a smart young woman @zephalexia, this is indeed one of the reasons in the decline of the quality in marriage for some couples; but, with young children. Those who reported the same situation but have teenager kids the issue was more related with how the mother and the father disagreed about punishments, letting kids do or not do things etc...
Maybe your partner could reach some level of forgiveness through imagining it! He would feel so much better :) I am sure. And yes, George is indeed an amazing man. This is why I decided to share his example with you all here.
Thank you very much for your constant support! It means A LOT to me :)
ps: I will check your sister's blog when I have some free time!
I wish you & your family a lovely weekend filled with peace and happiness.
All the best to you always.
:)
thanks ms. @abigail- dantes for your response, but you know he's just different on how he treat me now haha, not like when we were just boyfriends and girlfriends , but he's very good father, he play a lot and very cheerful to the kiddos , but his family told me that this is the normal him haha, because i tell some of our stories to his mom and sisters sometimes , when i am so anhry with him haha.
Happy weekend miss abi , stay beautiful and awesome .
PS : haha ,by the way , if you don't mind me asking , what is your nationality?