- When making an entrance into a party, do you make your presence known? Do you slip in and look for someone you know? Do you sneak in quietly and find a safe spot to roost?
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See me blinking? See me swallowing? That's me before a party! Most people will say that I am a social butterfly with lots of friends but ... Yes, there is a but... I am really super shy! No one believes me when I tell them how shy I am. Maybe I can handle the feeling better these days though. I still get the red cheeks and rapid heartbeat, the sweating, and the shivers but I pull myself together and make it happen!
I like people and I love spending time with them but I also don't mind being alone for days. When I have a party I become nervous at least 3 days before it even happens. And with nervous I mean, getting sick. Yes, I sometimes even puke because I worry way too much! It's one of the things I am working on in my life that costs me a lot of time. I learned a lot already but the nervousness that makes me sick is a hard part! It does not stop me anymore though. No matter how long I am on the toilet, I will go to the party and I will mingle with the people like everyone else!
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Why a goat? Because why not!
Now to the entrance I make at a party! I want to slip in silently without making any sounds at all! The moment of walking into a room full with people gives me a stroke beforehand and I think that is also the cause that I can never enter a room full of people without breaking my neck over something, walking into someone and spilling a drink, saying hello way too loud because my ears stopped working for some weird reason, or without bumping into the BIGGEST party person in the room who will lift me up and scream LOOK WHO IS HERE PEOPLE! I try, I try and I always fail and I do believe that is because of my nervousness!
And again, even though I do not like that feeling at all, I also enjoy it because it's a lesson for me. The more it happens the better I get at doing it! So, I think that if I keep going as I do now, I will be able to make a good entrance within ... Let me count here 60 years! And that is when I am dead! No joke! So, to answer the question, I make my presence well known if I want it or not! Life happens when you are having fun!
I would really love to read what you do when you enter a room full of people! Please share your answers in the replies below this post! Your words are highly appreciated!
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i dont go to parties. i just clean up after them XD
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I'm like you and try to slip in quietly to a party. Personally, I dont like a lot of attention on me. No grand entrances for me
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As a person suffering from social anxiety I just go to the foods, eat until someone talks to me. If no one talked to me I will call it a day and just make a memory of how the foods tasted good. @poeticsnake
I usually just slip in and look for someone I know. No social anxiety, but I like to find people I am comfortable around. I usually avoid parties. Groups of more than 6 people annoy me.
I arrive, walk in, boisterously and confidently announce that I have arrived, then proceed to find the most remote, desolate corner of the party to spend my time, alone, not talking to anyone. :D
If it's a party with friends there is usually an entrance. If it's a social event or a party where I wouldn't know anyone, I approach people who are open
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Well to me when I enter a party full with people what I do mainly is to try and ignore the crowd by focusing mainly on myself . I to build my self confidence by smiling at the crowd and just wave my hands and move on @poeticsnake
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