Being a single successful man with no kids in your mid 30's would be a very high quality of life.
No whining kids.
No bitchy spouse.
No house that resembles a preschool playground
Vacations and Toys for YOU.
Why do people put themselves through this shit?
Even more wild is how you age like fine wine and your economical position improves.
I highly advise any man who is remotely good looking and has the possibility of making something of themselves to avoid this trap at all cost.
No matter how hot the one you got is right now.... get out.