LOL! Thats funny. I feel the same way about sex in novels. There is a balance. I hate scenes with graphic sex, that's not why I'm reading the book. Even when I was younger I din't like stories with a lot of sex. In my experience, I have found books with a lot of sex aren't that good, like "Fifty Shades of Gray." And I agree with what Stephen King said, "I read Fifty Shades of Grey and felt no urge to go on." I tried to read it and got about twenty to thirty pages and closed it.
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