My Sister @itsjana asked me a very interesting question and i want to share it with you:
"Why are bad things so easy to obtain and good things so hard? Why is it hard to make money but easy to spend, why is it easy to gain weight but so so hard to loose, why is it easier to eat fast food but hard to eat healthy or why is it hard to lead a relationship but easy to break up?"
My answer was:
"Just like for this question there is no right or wrong answer the concept of good and bad or hard and easy exists in the individual perspective of a person. A relationship thats hard to lead could be a sign that something is wrong and so a breakup is easy but it could also be otherwise a relationship that is easy to lead could be a sign of harmony and a break up would be hard. If we look at gaining and loosing weight both is equal to each other but it has a lot to do with the human psychic if we get used to eat healthy it will be easy for us to keep it that way the same is it with unhealthy food. Also its always easier to give the power of decision to someone else because than you dont to participate actively but just follow orders. For example to employe people is harder than being an employee , to cook at home is harder than going to a restaurant, to decide witch movie to watch is harder than turning on the tv. The nature of a human is a lazy one thats why we have cars, washing-machines or elevators all inventions of lazy people.Also fear plays a big role. I dont quit the job i hate because im afraid i wont find a new job, I dont open my own business because im afraid i will fail, i dont end this horrible relationship because im afraid I will stay alone. Most people sadly dont know that fear is something good fear leads the way we should follow and is under no circumstances a barrier. Like Jing & Jang Love cant exist without hate, happiness cant exist without sadness or in other words we wouldn't enjoy sunny weather if it wouldn't rain some times. We create our own reality because life it self is always in perfect balance its about how we live it."
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Wise words @xemurai, this is a very important aspect of life and you explained so well. Congratulation mate, this is the kind of content i really enjoy to discuss. Life depends from the way you look at things and from how you perceive things. It all starts in your mind, your thoughts create your own reality. There is not easy or hard , there is only you, your mindset and the attitude you have towards life events. Life is already in balance and you have to go through the bad in order to understand what good is and the bad comes in your life to make you grow. That's why it is important how you look at things and how you think about it. Have a great day mate, thanks for sharing this amazing post. Ciao
I agree , Its way easy to say it but its a different story to put it into practice. great words
you right, it requires a lot of training but it is worth it.
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Interesting thinking @xemurai! You have described these life aspects quite clearly. Sometimes it takes more efforts to put things right, though there might be a lot of willingness by the people. There is a saying in my country "From the statement to the action there is a whole sea in between", that is to say, you have to struggle a lot to put your words into action.
All true what you said, can't be light without darkness
Awwww cute
@xemurai I agree with all your words .
Well spoken Xemurai.i love your post.Life on it's on is complicated,but then no matter how complicated it is,we still have a choice,either to make it worth a while or see the negative aspect of it.It's for us to decide which has the best savour. When life gives us lemon,we should make a lemonade out of it.
So cute 😊
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Excellent article. I really liked it. Good luck to you and Love.
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Some questions in this world cannot be answered, so we should keep moving ahead in life .
@xemurai, very interesting story I like it. I sure resteem it
a very wise answer, that means that everything in life has a why? I think it is a balance for things to happen there are good and bad risks is something that one does not stop thinking, if everything in life costs to get them because we do the wrong thing to lose them? what annoying ...
to be very frank, her face is not that good but her figure and dressing sense is too good
She is stunning. Well maintained body
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xemurai (66) you are great and very nice answering all things and all the way you say this is a lesson taught to all cammunity very nice.
Nice post. You and your sister are too familiar. Keep it up. I love your post so i resteem it.
Thank you so much
Most welcome
Very true. Nice motivational speech... Your sister is really lucky because @xemurai is her brother !!
Very nice from you @mintu1319
Thank you
ohhhh....what a great answer bro... great blog. Everyone need to understand this.
thank you so much sir for your precious upvote @xemurai
If that is your sister ^ I'm pretty sure it's easy for her to find new boyfriend
haha not so easy because family has to approve :D
Great article @xemurai. Your sister @itsjana asked a very complicated question and you answered it well. There couldnt be any other perfect answer. The examples were class. Genius you are @xemurai. No doubts.
Appreciate your kind words :)
@xemurai wise thoughts about good and bad things!! I totally agree with your thoughts:)
It was a certain Albus Brian Wulfric Percival Dumbledore who once said:
Nice one ☝️ :)
Thanks. Not a big fan of J. K's books, but this quote was a real gem in my eyes.
Really nice perspective and logic you have there friend! A must read!
That is a perfect answer. Can't agree more.
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How is your experience with the Partiko app?
It is great. It doesn't have the full access and it doesn't allow copy and paste but it is easier to catch up with all the notification. I think it is more convenient to me compare to fast reply.
Seem to be almost like ginabot in discord. You should try it. It is not so fancy but yet a handy tools.
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sounds good im mostly use steemit and steepshot from my macbook and because it seems more convenient but was looking for some easy to use app do you know if Partiko is also available for iphone?
My friend did install partiko in her iphone. She manage to install but it seem to have some feature lacking compare to android or maybe some feature more. I am not sure yet because me myself just started using and I haven't explore much.
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thanks for the info
You are welcome.
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My friend did install partiko in her iphone. She manage to install but it seem to have some feature lacking compare to android or maybe some feature more. I am not sure yet because me myself just started using and I haven't explore much.
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Very very pholospphical article and I think it is more about perspective and circumstances than about being judgmental in assessing good or bad.
You are totally right.
The question is the same from ancient times ... Good or bad ... The answer is also from ancient times ... Man is made for the evil, proven ... But society is the one that puts the brake on the downhill that he might get ...
Because good things require us to be hardworking an intelligent. Hard earned things make us feel worthy.
Nice writing! You can't really tell the outcome of your decision at the moment only when you look back you are able to make a judgement about it.
And at that point it shouldn't matter anymore. Good and bad things are just concept of humans.
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I am in love..
Wow sir your sister is very pretty, And i am totally agree with her but one thing i must say though its easy to obtain bad things but its not that much easy to get out from bad things.
very true
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