Well put. First, I hadn't heard of Aids Skrillex until today, so thanks for that. Haha.
But, yeah, I went from wanting to call it out regularly, to getting better at letting it not get to me, to now realizing this is something that needs to be stood up to in healthy ways. Because it doesn't seem to be a movement that will willingly recede, and meanwhile a lot of harm is coming from it. I've been saying the white self-hatred isn't helping black people. I flip that around--I'm better at my service work when I'm proud of who I am. See my next post for a case-in-point.