Such views fit with the today's diabolic frame of reference.
The purpose of sex is not the expression of love. It is not a need to be satisfied or something to brag about. It is not a feather in a cap or a coming of age. It is not a game. It should never be taken lightly.
Sex is a means to the end which is reproduction for many species on this planet.
Any human, being a sentient entity, should have been educated by parents and community, to a level of understanding of the purpose of sex, the responsibility implicit in its use and the appropriate preparation for parenthood.
No person who has not considered all that is required and made a best effort to provide a suitable home for a prospective child, should even consider sexual relations.
Such requirements include education, appropriate age, gainful employment, medical aid and most importantly, marriage to a suitable partner with the intent of providing a sterling example of commitment to family, future and providing for children until their last breath.
Those who engage in sexual activity without these things being in place are a hindrance to the human race and any man engaging in sexual activity and then providing the argument posed above would receive any lenience were I the judge.
The fact that he was in a position in which she has any evidence like that is enough to convict him in my book. She is as guilty of this offense against the possible child, against sensibility, against God and humanity.
Sex without marriage is like playing Russian roulette with someone else's life, the someone being the potential child.
It is clear to me you have no idea what sex is, and probably you will never understand.
Ohh and btw, stop insulting people that have a different perspective than yours.
I wonder if you have any scientific arguments that backs your words, or are this words of God and his followers?
Sex is good and healthy in many ways, and only because it is the way we reproduce ourselfs, it does not mean we should not have it without wanting a child. It is like eating, you could survive with 1 meal every 3 days, but it is good and healthy to have 3 meals each day.
If you say every time i have sex, i waste a potential life, then what about the other billions of spermcells that lose the race? and what about people that cannot have children? are they allowed to have sex?
Sex is a game, life itself is a game, your job is a game, society, religion, everything is a game with certain rules, that you can choose to play and try to be good at for recognition or wealth. The odds are 1/10quadrillion that you win the spermrace race and exist in this form that you are now, so stop the bullshit and enjoy life as long as you can.
I know, the religion marketing is strong, has deep roots in your brain, but try to think and see things like they are, try understanding the laws of our universe and our evolution, the science behind life, it will help you break the chains and be free of this holy scam.
Let me refrase your ending: Any second you don´t have sex and don´t plant your seeds deep inside an egg, you are playing russian roulette with full gun with someone else´s life, by not even giving him the 1/10quadrillion chance to become a human.