Death is the end and period, or not. Death is the end of all existence according to most formal definitions and the beginning of eternal life and a new life according to the thousands of religions out there, is something definitive, is the end of a cycle and the early renewal of the life cycle (so if your body turn food of worms, otherwise the final balance of death are ashes to the wind). Death may be preceded by immense pain and suffering, agony, of astonishment or joy, it is relentless and does not discriminate against anyone, after all this is the beauty of nature its laws are inviolable, may be unfair, but are predictable. But when the inevitable moment of my departure I wish it to be something quiet and subtle, I leave without leaving sorrows only someone missing me.
clearly, you've missed the point. you won't be missed.