“Boyfriend’s secrets”, the title is itself intriguing. For the couples out there, relationships are a must, right? They often come down to one simple thing – transparency, for staying happy or satisfied in a relationship. Well, from the emotional stability gained to all the wreck created by arguments, one goes through many ups and downs when in a relationship. You don’t desire much of it, but one comes along with another.
We have put together a list of some boyfriend’s secrets which you would want to know about him. Let’s begin!
1. The biggest of boyfriend’s secrets: morning wood
It is because of the s3xual fantasies that they dream of during the daytime. Nonetheless, it doesn’t matter whatever reason may be behind your boyfriend’s boner in the morning; they’ll never tell you about it.
2. Fear of losing you
Finally, he’ll not ask you to live with him and still, the thought of you leaving him sends shivers down his spine. Therefore, men will never tell women about their fears, insecurities, and dependencies.
3. Emotional stability
They have zero, no kidding yet never think that they’ll say a ‘yes’ to it if asked. They always seek emotional support from you, doesn’t matter how self-reliant they pretend to be.
4. Wallets and Mobile phones
He will not say anything yet he’ll never like you going through his wallet or smartphone.
5. Cuddle all day
S3x was partly done to satisfy you, if you ask his inner self (since he’ll not tell you) then after all the action, he would want to spend the rest of night and/or day with you in his arms and nothing else in the world.
6. Commitments
He is unsure of the fact whether he’ll be able to support both of you financially. But you never forced him to bear all the expenses, then why? Well, that is what he thinks and never tells you. This is one of the most common boyfriend’s secrets.
7. Ex-girlfriends
He has been in relationships, and he’d rather like you not to stumble upon her name or in person at all. He wants his past to remain past and not affect his present with you. Consider knowing about one of these boyfriend’s secrets.
8. Bad habits
He never will resist to smoking pot with you, on the contrary, he’ll also never take the initiative to bring up the point first.
9. Adult content
Men have a habit of collecting adult content. Whether that be in the form of clips or films, there’s no doubt about it, yet they’ll never accept it in front of you.
10. Insecurities
Similarly, they also have an inferiority complex when it comes to their physique or performance in bed. And, they’re constantly thinking about whether you are attracted to him or satisfied.
11. Lies told in past
Men are no saints, on the other hand, they too have a long list of wrongdoings. Lies have been a big part of their lives which women will have no clue about it unless they hire a detective to spy on their men.
12. Sexual fantasies in bed
Women have a higher sexual urge than men, still, never think that they don’t have their own pre-mindsets. Though they’ll never express all that they want to do to you in bed.
13. Checking out other girls
This goes without saying, it’s human tendency and poor boys cannot do anything about it. So, avoid asking them “Were you checking her out?” because they’ll never reply you in favor of that.
14. Dependency on you
Take pride women, he perhaps picks up the cheque at a fancy restaurant or pulls the door for you but, he is dependent on you and would feel like standing in a no man’s land if you’re not standing beside him.
15. Grudges
He will try to be calm when with you, it doesn’t mean you’ve been given a free pass, this often takes the form of grudges, so just wish that they don’t explode on you someday.
16. Sickness
You might think that he’s being mean yet he also never wants to let you know about his sickness or when he falls ill. Because he doesn’t want you to get worked up or worry too much about when there’s already much going on in your own life to manage.
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All I can say is the past relationship part can be hell. I forgot to throw out a photo of an old girlfriend and me kissing once. My then girlfriend stumbled upon it when looking through my photos. I'm a photographer and it was just tucked away in a album. She never got over that photo and reminded me of it on several occasions. Oh well, you live and learn.
Well, what can I say girls are like that.. Let them caught on just one thing , and it will be on replay mode to us for the rest of our lives...... my heart goes out to you @musetwo
It's all good, that relationship is done now and I'm much happier for it. Just learned to get rid of all the photos in the future.
Glad that all is well...... May your relationship stay blissful and loving forever.....
Girlfriends should accept that your boyfriend has a history. But guys should be open to tell ur gf. Yes will be jealous for awhile n make hell for u. But its better than we found out ourselves.