If the question is asked me, I'm going to be happy. While I'm reading ur article, I recalled a sad news. A woman was abused when she was child. She got married and have a girl. She thought that one day, her daughter will be abused because of her. probably, she was under a kind of delusion. She decided to kill herself to protect her daughter, but she worried about her daughter's life. Finally, she tried to commit suicide with her daughter. Her daughter died and the mother failed to die. Love doesn't mean 'possession'. What someone ask "Would you die for me?" is a very stupid question. However, if someone ask you, I think he or she is probably not going to just kill you. If you want to be loved, please ask "Would you try to live well for me?" That's enough!