I am back on another relationship talk and like I always say, relationship is not by force. You don’t have to go into it when you are not ready. Also, relationship is ‘give and take’; you give as much as you take if you want to keep your relevance. You don’t go into marriage blind. It can never ever work.
If you are the type, that wants to always receive and never give anything back, then relationship is not for you. You can’t love without giving and don’t think having sex with him will keep him for long, because as long as you are not offering him value and being a value adder, then it is a matter of time before he dumps you. No man likes a liability and I am sure no lady likes one either.
So many people have a weird idea on what a relation
I feel like I commit myself into a relationship too much, in a short amount of time, giving more than I can take from the relationship. And that is conditioning me to pursue something/anything with anyone. Any advice?
I think you need to seek out for value before committing yourself to anyone. I used to be like that too. I always allow my emotions to get the better of me. I go into things with my heart rather than my head. i know better now. If i notice someone won't add value to me and I can't add value to such person, I would rather let such person be, hence saving my heart in the long run. Learn to seek out for value and check if that person is worthy before committing your heart to such a person.
The thing is, I´m a very rational person, I like to think before I act, but in terms of relationships my brain gets stupid and then I fall into that mistake.
If you don´t mind, allow me to ask you, how old are you and when did you felt the switch to avoid the mentioned mistake?