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RE: The Incongruent Patner: Very Confusing; Walk out Or Stay?

in #relationship7 years ago

Very true my dearly beloved. But while you have fallen over heels, does this love absorb the emotional trauma that can come with this kind of partner "incongruent ". Well if you can deal with it and cope yet remain happy its not bad at all.

But for thise who can not what would you advice, for those who obviously is not enjoying or feeling loved what do you tell them, to endure till marriage and endure and bore pains for life?.

Well if I can get answers to this questions, it would really go a long way. Thank you sis for dropping those wonderful lines. It shows you are a lover darl. Good stuff.

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My dear...for me, what one can't take, one should walk away from it. Love does not bring pain. Love makes you happy. When someone is in love, it reflects in anything that person does. So does going through an emotional truama, that pain will also reflect in whatever he/she does. Sweethrt, simple answer is walk away and find happiness elsewhere. It may look like it will never come, but the truth is if one does not walk away, they miss the opportunity of finding true love and happiness. Believe me, the pain of walking away is only temporily.
For me, "incongruent" partner is the worse that anyone can have. Is a no no for me.
You are an intelligent and smart lady, i really admire your person.

You are an intelligent and smart lady, i really admire your person.

Thank you sis, we are all in this together. As women we can always look out for one another. Stay motivated and beautiful sweet one.🤗🤗🤗🤗

Yes dear, i am a lover. When i love, i love with every breath in me. But when i walk, i walk away with every bit and pieces of me without regrets and no looking back cos is can only get better. My darling, if there any advice for one, never ever regret walking away, as the best is yet to come.

Thank you for throwing more light on this. Well appreciated, I think the lesson is really worth it. I love lovers, bless you for having the heart to love.

🤗🤗🤗🤗

Hard core lover. Me like the sound of that.

Hahah...tell @ceepee again 😀. She sounds like a beautiful lover😎

@gloglo That sounds good. Oh yes!

Yay I love that, it can only get better. I use at tag alot.# itcanonlygetbetter😙🤗