Welcome here dear one, love is everything, love is beautiful, patient, trust, peaceful and everything good you can think of. Maybe you arw yet to meet that love... but one thing is sure, love will find us all.
In your context, love has to be tested through fire but not in a relationship with an incongruent partner. Love can be tested in various ways ranging from sickness, poverty, illetrracy, trust and all of that but not in the design of an incongruent partner.
With them you would be in a crazy mess. You could have your mind exploded. Therefore I leave you with this words:
if you must love with your heart do not lose your mind.