The people who are the way you described (incongruent) are simply manipulative. Manipulative people seldom change, though they may cry and swear they would. You are better off walking away. As hard as it may appear, you are better off without them!
People generally hate change, so that explained the clinging to a ship that is sinking. The uncertainty of the future makes many hang on; even when the present is as bleak as it could get. Great write-up. Bravo.
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👏👏You have finished work here... manipulative!!!! That's the word. You are good, they look for a way to put you in a fixed spot. Turning your buttons and stylishly controls you. Toxic and unhealthy thing for someone who deserves a good and better life.
Thank you for contributing, you are unapologetically good😁
Lol at apologetically good. We can only try. Relationship could just be easy, but some complicate the hell out of it!
Very true. I just hope people can just make thinhs easier for their fellow man generally.
I love to see people fall in love but when it is very toxic and inhealthy I usually advise they find their ways... maybe they do not belong together. No need to stress it
You are a helpless romantic :)
Not a bad thing. I love love. Love is a beautiful thing.
Haha yeah it is, I could feel it when people are genuinely in love not when one is and the other is not.
Love makes many things go round you know 😁
Yeah, it doesn't make sense if it's one sided...it reduces the joy in it. It is like having only the two back tires working while the two front tires are fixed. Not efficient!
Exactly !😁