There are wounds that never appear on the body, that hurts more than any thing that bleeds.
Emotional abuse is as bad as physical abuse, if not worst.
Just because a person did not put their hands on you, doesn't mean they are not abusive.
- Abuse is control
- Abuse is disrespect
- Abuse is internal pain
Don't settle for emotional abuse thinking it's OK just because it's not physical.
If you are afraid of your partner when they are angry,
If you are afraid of how your partner will react when you disrespect them,
If you are afraid of what their response or reaction will be to you, when you are doing something or showing an interest in something,
You are already experienceing Emotional abuse.
if the wounds on people's heart and the bruises on their soul can be translated into their skin, we wouldn't even Recognize them.
Sometimes we want to be loved so badly that we can't even tell it's not love.
Been alone may scare you but been in a bad relationship can scar you.
You don't let go of a bad relationship because you stop caring about them, you let go because you started caring for yourself.
It is better you break your own heart by leaving,rather than have someone else break it every day.
Remember
THE PROBLEM IS THAT WE WANT TO BE LOVED SO BADLY, THAT WE CAN'T EVEN TELL THAT IT'S NOT REALLY LOVE
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"It is better you break your own heart by leaving,rather than have someone else break it every day."
Nice quote :-) We are trying to teach our son early on that it is ok to feel anger and pain, but it is up to him to not let that anger control him and his actions or speech. Not an easy feat for a four year old. but I hope the lesson will sink in and he will understand more as he grows up.
With your guardians I'm sure your son will grow up to be a better man.
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Wow! @jblsignature am really touched by this article of urs. Wish most young youth and couples out there could understand how important it is to save themselves from emotional abuse before its too late. Am glad to have come across ur article dear. Well done 👏👏 upvoted and restreemed.
Awe thank you so much.
So much sense and lessons to brood on in just one post. Massive sense!!! I likey. 😍😍😍
Awwww thanks a bunch honey.
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STOPYou are absolutely right, we should all run away from any relationship that is making us go through pain.