This is truly a very well written and thought out piece. If I could sum up all the 9 learnings in one word, that would be "Responsibility".
Taking responsibility for how we think, feel, act and respond is perhaps the single most critical factor to living an empowered life. And learning to acknowledge and recognised our past mistakes and the role we played in it, is the first step towards healing.
I didn't realize my comment wasn't posted for some reason. Totally appreciate what you have to say - indeed responsibility and taking responsible for ourselves is the act of a "true" adult to put it that way,. That's why healing takes place when we step up and claim our responsibility because we take our power back. Thanky your for your thoughts dear .. @karinzdailygrind :)