Wow this really is a situation!
I have a few things to say about this , but you will work ooh
You seem to really love the first girl. But aren't sure if she loves you atall.
To see if the first lady loves you;
Suddenly start acting up, behave all moody and sad and distraught. But don't over do it. A lady in love will notice the slightest change in her man's mood. If she doesn't notice anything or if you notice that she does but still doesn't seem to care, my brother !look for way out. You deserve better, since in the past all you have showered is love. Another thing is that before you do this, make sure you stop any habits that you know she doesn't like, so as to get a clear reaction from her.
For the second lady, do the same thing only add a little bit of spice by saying you have lost your means of income totally and you have absolutely no support and angrily reject any suggestion she will give you.
If she still clings to you (even tighter) , she is the one for you.
Ps: don't forget to be an awesome actor bro, to really get desired responses.
Hmmm, Ma @lizbethnk, I got this. Thanks dear