@oluwatobiloba, I don't know why some people alway look on to closed door not realizing another open door beside them. Mr biodun's case is very simple let your friendship remain with the lady and look else where for your love. The lady had told you the truth and if you decided to stay with her hoping you can still have a chance of getting her best of luck to you in advance.
But if you are not chance to get her, I bet with you the friendship the lady want will end when the lady gets married to another man. So what are you waiting for before is too late.
My advice for you is to make hay while the sunshine.
Naso oo my brother, I hope he listens you know we can only try
Thanks a lot bro, I appreciate.