@oluwatobiloba, today's relationship question of the week is logical. But nevertheless there are still ways people solve problems. I felt there is what we called feeling and emotion. But there is this saying; don't ever allowed your emotion to run you down. Sometimes we tend to see infatuation as love and vice-versa. Let miss Anonymous be calm and have this in her mind that whatever that is destiny to be her own will be her own forever. She should forget the matter of distance.
And to your friend @oluwatobiloba, his case is very simple, only him can decide what to do for himself. From his explanation am able to derived that they were both in love with each other, but I totally disagree with the lady if she had been telling your friends that she in love with him whereas she had another boyfriend which the lady said she can't let go of him.
On the other side I can't blame the lady too because they must be a reason why she is holding on to two different guy and she claim not to leave one of out them and she can't reach conclusion of following your friend.
Then, Please let your Friend know that the lady may be attracted to the material thing she is getting from him. Am very sorry if this statement sound insulting to the lady.
There is only two ways to go about this;
- Let your friend call the lady and tell the her to decide who she is interested among the two of them.
2.Or your friend should let her be and look for someone else. I probably know this option 2 might be difficult for your friend to do but that why am sharing this video with him, so that he could watch and learn from it.
Thanks brother.
Your consistency on this show means so much to me. May God bless your good heart.