The truth is, there is no perfect relationship. Yeah, keeping the balance is the goal.
Be aware that ups and downs are inevitable. Patience is a virtue that is necessary. If you're thinking of balancing your love to your partner, you got it wrong!
A true love in my own experience is endurance up to the end. Either you love your partner much more than he/she loves you or vice versa. Equal love between you and your partner is impossible to happen. If you can accept the truth that love is priceless, you will be in peace.
Sending my love to you!
