I get this satisfaction of footing the bills, If I take a guy out I pay the bills, then in school I had this ex of mine, I asked him out for a date, after eating I paid the bills he was like wow.. Meanwhile as a student then, I was boxed up cos my dad made sure I never lacked anything, It was more like an added ego to my alter Ego.. Lol back to the story, he took advantage of me being his 'mugu' (Nigerian slang for someone who spends 'stupidly' for another) . I just had to break up with him. But that doesn't stop me from still taking 'le boo' out and pay the bills...
In all honesty, i believe if you're the one that asked the other out, then the person who asked for the date should pay. I as a lady can't ask for a date and allow the other person to pay. 'So its who asked for a date should be the one to pay for it'.
I also contribute in the little way i can in running my home, it must not be the husband's job to do all these things. Lovely post. Lovely post. Lovely post.
Thank you for this beautiful comment, I'm sure now that some of the singles here can see a practical example. According to our own @sweetestglo-eu the bill is not for 'le boo' alone ooo. Thank you sis, already you have inspired this movement. Thanks a lot.